Frustrations...

Wasn't in too good mood today. Firstly its cause my stupid finger is still sore and swollen and it hurts everytime I write or type something *and that's actually like every other second though I pretend I'm ok*. Then I had slightly-less-than-nice people around me who thinks I have a high threshold for things when it's actually the other way round -_-'''

I used to have head on confrontations with my friends in the past and they would turn out real bad. We would start screaming at each other and the issue still remained unresolved. There was once I remembered such a confrontation left me and my best friend storming off on each other along the streets!

I feel that if ultimately, the only way to resolve things is to separate the 2 parties and give some time for both sides to cool down before any form of verbal confrontation, then the best take is to make your leave before something offensive comes out from your mouth. After awhile, when the anger is less overwhelming, that might be a better time to sort things out instead.

But sometimes I don't understand why people can be so insensitive when they obviously know that the other party is super pissed and they still don't hold their tongues. Oh well... I guess that all the more shows me the importance of 'taming the tongue' and what I should NOT do unto others.

Sigh... Zuo4 ren2 zhen1 nan2...